(just another rant)

Just wanted to give my say on this...
While watching SNSD on Intimate Note, Sica gave me the impression that she was... well, b*tchy.
I researched online if this is true, but almost all that I came across, were dissing her. There are apparently a lot of haters since she may have dated Donghae of Super Junior (before they debuted?) and that she slapped him. There are also rumors of her dating Heechul of Super Junior and Jaejoong of DBSK.
Regarding the dating issue, come on? So what if she dated any of them? If she did it all at the same time, that would be a different issue. But where do we, as fans, get the right to say, "I hate Jessica because she dated Donghae." Jealous much?
I think, as fans, stars owe as living decently, performing well, but I don't think they owe us their personal lives. I like Donghae. But if he got married, I wouldn't be upset. It seems like everyone thinks they have a chance with him, but not everyone gets to live a fairytale life.
Anyway, back to Jessica. I watched the MTV thing they did, although I think that was quite some time ago since she had long brown curly hair (haha, using her hair as a time stamp?) And I found out that we have something in common- she has a 6 year age difference with her sister, Krystal.
Also, I put myself in her shoes, imagining all the nasty things people are saying about me, etc. And maybe anti fans need to do so too. Because I would hate to be in that position. I felt bad for her.
So, my conclusion on Jessica from SNSD is... well, she may not be the perkiest and friendliest, but she may be nice? I give her the benefit of the doubt. (The whole reason I searched, was, I don't think I could listen to SNSD if they were plastic. I don't even download Miley's songs even if "Party in the USA" and "The Climb" was good. Generally, if I don't like someone, I probably won't listen to their music.)